I was a pretty popular guy growing up. I made friends easily and had no problem fitting in. I could be seen with the cool kids or by myself.

Making friends is easy. Just look and feel good about yourself. When you feel good about yourself, you will attract people to you. If you love yourself, people can find an easy reason why they like you.

Subconsciously, we are drawn to people. We want to hang out with somebody even if we don’t know why. We want to spend our time with people we are attracted to.

When we find somebody who we are interested in getting to know or letting them get to know us, it can be chill. Like it’s cool to meet a like-minded individual.

We you first make a friend it like getting a new character in a video game. You want to see what they can do and how they can be an asset to your life. Getting to know your new friend can be interesting.

Not everybody you’re gonna come across people that ars friend worthy. Some people may like your aura next to them, but they themselves are personally no good and may cause you harm.

Some people are bad friends, they won’t return your calls. Calling someone has a certain amount of anxiety attached to it already. So for them not to get back to you kinda hurts.

Having friends is cool, but try and keep your circle small. You don’t want to have too many friends. Not all of the people you call friends are not really your friends.

Spend time hanging out, enjoying the things you and your friends like to do. My grandpa told me once, and he said, ” What makes two people friends is what they have in common.” Having something in common is what make friends, friends.

I enjoy drinking and smoking, all my friends drink and smoke. We all spend time drinking and smoking together.  We are friends and have drinking and smoking in common.

Making friends can be cool. Maintaining friendships can be tricky. It takes communication and open-mindedness  to seem really relatable. Take your time and make genuine friendships.