In tribute to DMX, Ruff Ryders, and Yonkers I ask the question, Do you love them till there done? For some men it’s impossible for them to make any woman climax.

If you are a dude like me, you better prepare to please. And you better prepare to exercise for better performance.

DMX was not playing when it comes to pleasing the meow. He had like 7 kids by like 3 baby mommas.

It’s not a game when it comes to making whoopie in the bedroom. When you’re ruff riding and the sexual tension starts building up, do your offer relief or just add to the tension? Because if you can’t offer sexual relief for your partner, you are not the solution. Unfortunately you just added another problem.

Women are tricky to please.

When it comes to a guy, make a wish, rub the lamp a few times, and out comes the genie ready to grant you a wish. With females you gotta get into their head, their heart, mind, and then maybe you have a shot at getting inside their body. You gotta know what they like and what they are about just to attempt to get a chance at their body.

Then when it comes down to preforming you gotta be king ding o’ling. you gotta be ready to please that booty by any means necessary. From foreplay to the playback you gotta be ready to eat, drink and and stick around for seconds, even thirds. Because well, you want her to come back again, and again, and again, don’t you? You like her right?

And one more thing. You don’t give sexual gymnastic gold medal moves to every woman you come across. You just don’t.

Because if you do, you might end up being a man whore, womanizer, or rapist that needs to get taking out back to be shot.

But that one women you got to know, spend time with, held hands with… they deserve that ride or die status. Not your homeboy’s girlfriend after they got into a fight.

I have a friend. His girlfriend left him during some really bad times. The feeling of social pressures were too much and they broke up. Her new man swore he was in love, and that his homeboy’s girlfriend was the best woman he had ever been with. When her man wanted her back all he had to do was send a dick pic and she came running back to him.

See the back stabbing fake friend who stole his homeboy’s girl may have been in love, but it was more likely lust and envy driven. She might have though he was cool, but in the end, a back stabber couldn’t please her.

He couldn’t preform in bed, he was self serving and only thought about himself, his pleasure, his wants and needs, and about busting a nut. He didn’t care if she had an orgasm or not. He only thought about himself and getting one off. And afterward, he had no problem rolling over and going to sleep.

So when my friend started sending dick pics, it triggered some deep inside her. She knew being with my friend was the only way she could feel true pleasure and truly be pleased. She knew no one would make love to her better then him. The fact that he knew she was with someone else and still wanted to bang the cat, only thrilled her and made her leave his homeboy, quick, fast and in a hurry.

Weak penis is the ruin of many women. If her man isn’t giving a woman what they want or need, prepare to get hurt feelings.

Weak penis leaves a woman unsatisfied and that dissatisfaction follows her. When a woman’s cat is hot from weak penis she takes her frustration to work, school, home, and the bedroom.

What’s the point of her letting her bedrock if ain’t gonna make her crumble?

I learned a lot about pleasing a woman when I was a teen. I would hang out at a former friend’s house. While at his house, while he was sleep, I would stay and watch real sex.

On that HBO hit classic they explored sex and different sex acts that people would engage in. That show was the best in explaining what a woman wanted in the bedroom.

They talked about forplay, pills, geeking, and different ways to make a woman cream. I learned just what most women were wanting and expected in the bedroom. I made a vow to give one woman what she wanted, needed, and desired after watching that show.

I got that woman now and have been married for 10 years and counting. I try every time we lay down to preform at my best and I have seen her do some pretty amazing things because of the love I give.

Pleasuring a woman isn’t hard. You just have to be giving, patient, and willing to listen and not overly dominate the conversation about needs and wants, or compromises and deal breakers. Whatever you give a woman she will give you back ten fold.

You give her a great time in bed, filled with fun, giggles, and passion, and she will give you a life worth living. Making love is overrated only if you don’t rate or don’t value or respect your partner. Take my advice, study how to please a women, be willing to be patient and have open conversations about needs and wants, and in turn you might be more pleased with yourself.

A happy wife is a happy life.