What is family, just because we came outta the same women that makes us brothers? well, technical that would make us brothers, but you if betray me then what are we? Can I still call you my brother? What is family that riddled with bad intentions for each other. Nowadays, it seems like most people are family in name only.

What is family really? is it some we call each other when we need something or is something deeper. I have been married for over ten years now. I consider my wife to my family, of course. Other people in my life I can’t even consider to be family they are just my relatives. We share the same bloodline but they weren’t with me in the gym. When thng got bad for me, they had already from the past that i couldn’t turn to them.

How can you reach out to a father that threw off the mountain side. My dad exploited my kindness so could i ask him from help when i was going through hard times. He never helped or showed much generosity. He only showed during the holidays for my to babysit my little sister. He was never there so how can I call your a father. A father would never claim to be a father if they never raise there own child.

When family has hidden motives, and secretly hate you, what kind of family is that. When they plan and plot behind your back to drive your life to ruin. How can you look at them and say that you love them. When family start thinking that unconditional love means they can hurt and no love will loss, they are a fool. You can do what ever to somebody and say that it’s acceptable because of family ties. Crossing line and breaking boundaries isn’t cool, even if we are family.

Some family will engage in the most lowest deeds and actions in the name of greed. Family will steal, lie and even kill there own flesh and blood for shingles. They same people you them that you love them are plotting on a way to off your for your paper. Why they wanna stick you for your paper? Because they are more deserving, for what reason their treacherous minds can think of. If you don’t think auntie Petty don’t want you homeless on the street digging in garbage cans, think again.

The thing about treacherous family is that they won’t do to anyone else. They only target people closest to them, people who trust them. Who do you think you can trust more then family? So they slide there way through an open door. Sometimes family show up just to fuck your shit. That brother with nowhere to stay, the wants to only spends a night or two. No! thing dude is gonna live with you rent free, fuck your wife and touch your kid. That’s how sick some of people family members can be.

When the people you think you can rely on you betray your heartlessly, can you call them family. When they steal from you, consistently, how can you look at them them the same. Some people ask you if you have any family you turn to, you have to look away. Family is only good in name only.

This is my personal experience, that family can be the worst thing for you. Sometimes it better to make your family, instead of settling for the family you were born into. If you know they are no good, stay away from them. If you know they are on some fucked shit and they are your family, fuck em. They maybe your family but they don’t have your best interest in mind.

!!!!Stay away from toxic family members!!!!