If you don’t love them now, don’t expect them to love you later. Love them now treat the well. Be kind to the people who are in your life. You might regret it if you don’t. The people you let in your are not objects for you to mistreat and abuse.

My mother recently passed away. I found out a year after her passing. She was a horrible mother to me. She would neglect me and use my vices as a way to control me. She expected me to love for her without showing any sense that she cared about me.

When i had my daughter she refused to even buy pampers for my new born baby girl. I realized she was just using me. I stop calling and swore i would never talk to her again. One day randomly on Facebook i found out she had died and I finally found closure.

I started thinking about all the times she asked me for favors. The time i would give and sacrifice. With her passing I felt free.

I don’t want my daughter to cheer at my news of my death. I love my daughter and want to give to her selflessly. I show her the love and care that she needs to become a happy and healthy adult.

Love is a choice, if you choose to say those words “i love you” please let your actions match your words. People aren’t objects to be toyed with. We all have feelings and need to be love. If you misuse love and decide to exploit a person’s love for you as a weakness. They might be the ones celebrating at you funeral.

Showing loves take effort. To some people care and compassion take a lot of work. It’s worth it because now more then ever our communities need strong families. If we want our world to be a better place then it start with us. Families are what build a nation.

Now if just my mother in-law would kick the bucket I can pull out that vintage champagne I’ve been sitting on.