Be mindful of how you treat people or it might come back to bite you in the ass. People might not remember exactly what you said or did but they will remember how you made them feel. If you tend to be a rude, nasty person to people or certain individuals you can expect someone to match you. What you put out you get back, it’s that simple. If you call someone crazy, expect that one day you or someone close to you has a mental breakdown. If you treat others badly expect not to be treated well in a time of need. How you treat others is how you should expect to be treated.

We all live on this planet together, we all share the same water, air, and land. If you think you are better than and don’t have to have a sense of common courtesy toward people, you are in for a surprise. When someone is conveniently nasty to you when you need help maybe it’s the law of cause and effect. Because you might be rude and unwelcoming to others sends a ripple effect that leads someone to be nasty to you. If you are a nice person you might get pleasant interactions with people. You might come across that one asshole and justifiably you can be an asshole right back. The asshole might wonder why you are so mean, that fact is the asshole most likely deserved you to be that swift kick in the ass that they needed that day. When your dealing with people try to be nice if you want to be treated with respect and dignity. You go to a store and you are mean to the store clerk and wonder why no one else gets the same level of shitty service that you get, maybe it’s because not everyone is treating the clerk horribly, just you. If you are in a group or with friends you have to be mindful of your group’s actions not just your own. Your friends can bring you down with them.

Someone once asked me “Why do bad things happen to good people?” Well, it’s not always the one person’s fault that something bad happened to them but the company they keep. If you the nice guy in a group full of troublemakers be sure that you won’t be able to escape the consequences of their actions. You might have everyone fooled like your the good guy, the fact is the people in your faction are up to no good. If you surround yourself with people who are a blight on society then be sure you’re going down with the crowd. If you ever watch the hit TV show “First 48” then you know, everyone that is a part of something has to go down. When the group isn’t right then you can’t expect to be excluded from judgment. Especially with that one guy who is all too ready to say “If I go down I am taking you all with me.” In secret, that’s everybody’s mindset in group thought. One for all and one for all mind frames expect to die because of what one person did. You are in a group you worry about the group. That one person can bring you all down.

Be-careful of what you do and who you do it with. Watch how you and your group treat people. Because it might be your head on the chopping block or you might be the next one who gets stabbed in the back because due to what the group did. Try to be nice, kindhearted, and relatable. Keep your group in line, one day you might have to pay for what the group has done. Treat others with respect and dignity if you want to be treated with a sense of value. Be safe and take care.