I learned not to care about a lot of stuff. I tend to pick and choose what to give a damn about. I don’t feel everything needs my concern and try not to get myself involved in other people’s affairs. This belief saves me from a lot of unnecessary problems. Caring too much about what people do and what they’re going through prevents me from focusing on what may be important. I have a limited amount of patience for nonsense. Making other people’s problems my own only brings me stress and headaches.

When I see people doing dumb stuff I try not to pay it any mind. Sometimes it seems like some people just scream out “Give me attention” with all the stupid things they do. Guess what, I really don’t care. I don’t care when people make a spectacle of themselves. I try not to get myself wrapped up in their problems not just because I have problems of my own but because I don’t need other people’s problems. They can hold it down without my help and I can’t really do much to help. I am having a hard enough time taking care of me and mine to get involved in someone else’s issues. I really can’t help anybody out financially when most people just want you to care about their problem so they can get donations. I won’t care about other people’s problems so they can scam me out of a dollar.

Some people aren’t out for money, they want you to notice them and their buffoonery. I am no one’s senpai, I’m not trying to notice anybody and the dumb shit they do. It may seem cruel and heartless but I have to pick and choose. It’s not saying I won’t help out, I’m not a bleeding heart either. I read this book called “The subtle art of not giving a F*ck” by Mark Manson. He explains how not to concern yourself with too many other people’s problems. He explains how when you focus on other people’s problems you take the focus off of your own life. So, when people do things to distract me from what I’m doing I tend not to care about their issues because I have my own life to live.

I am trying to live my best life and I stay focused on what important to me. Help someone out with a few dollars or watching their display of debauchery will only bring me down. I have to focus on the betterment of my life and the life of my family. I already have a uphill battle deal with, being burdened with other people baggage will only slow my own personal process. I suggest that you learn what’s important and try not make every bodies else’s problem your own.

Be safe and good luck out there.