Your hanging out with some friends. Someone in your crowd catches your eye and you ask them for their number. You part ways and you go home.

All night long you can’t stop thinking about that special person you met. You want to call them but you don’t know what to say. You start letting doubt run through your mind.

You start thinking awful things. They won’t pick up if you call. You won’t have anything to talk about. You start thinking all these crazy thoughts that they you embarrass yourself.

That you will talk yourself out of any chance of being with them.

Nervousness is all too common when you’re trying to date someone. Worrying if you have a chance after shooting your shot. Rejection hurts and it’s a feeling no one wants to experience.

Here is some advice that an old head gave me. If your thinking about a special someone, call them and tell them just that. Tell them “hey, I am just calling because I was thinking about you”

Calling someone because you are thinking about them is an honest icebreaker.

You don’t need some super special game or pickup line. Genuine interactions are rare and very much appreciated.

Being open and honest goes a long way in the conquest for someone’s heart. You don’t need some important reason to call someone.

You really don’t have to lie or make an excuse to justify calling some your romantically interested in. Being truthful and relatable goes a long way.

If you start out with a lie and/or an excuse your going to find yourself looking to repeat unwholesome methods the entire relationship. If you start out genuine then there is a good chance that your going to remain genuine.

Not only will you remain open and honest but the person you’re interested in will respect you that much more. If you’re looking for a reason to talk to someone, you’re going to keep looking for reasons your whole relationship; that’s if you get that far.

Real recognizes real, so if you come out of the gate lying about why you’re calling then there is a good chance you’re going to be lying to that person until you break up. They might also start lying to you. It could be you formed a relationship built on lies.

Honesty is the best policy. You make that first phone call be truthful and keep it simple. If your thinking about someone, tell them just that. Call them and when you do keep it 100. No one likes a being lied to.

Keep it buck, if your trying to ….